Fresh Start
Nothing says you love yourself more than changed behavior. Understand with consistent changed behavior you create better for self, you see the difference in energy & focus!
I’m not only in my how to szn (next blog), I’m at place where it’s my fresh start and I get to choose what it look and feels like. What started this? Getting tired of myself, and still replaying the same stories. There was a lot of negative self talk, negative talk around me. I dream so BIG and when what I was manifesting happened I was sitting in my success like uh wow things like this shouldn’t be happening to little ol me. Stop playing BIG BODY COMING THROUGH! Tuuhhhhh ! It was time to let go and time to overcome playing myself. I learnt to believe in self and have the courage to go after my dreams and live in my purpose. I’m not reliving the same lessons over and over. I will not deal with anything I don’t have to …happiness and peace is my main priority. It’s done and I’m moving forward.
New book! There is no more negotiating Rebekah Denise.
I’ve put in the work and I am fully invested in embracing my level up. There are people, places, and things that no longer resonate where I am. I’m taking those lessons and growing into a better version - how far I’ve come and where I am going. So here’s some things I look at in my fresh start that can help you as well
Be selective with YOU & TIME: Life happens - please don’t carry guilt for outgrowing people, you’ll grow closer to those who understand and support where you are. Sometimes you need to distance yourself. What’s on your plate needs to be handled first. Have your PlanHER+ handy at all times for when you can squeeze in brunch, a quick phone call, quick pull up. Please never let your big plans be interrupted by people with small visions. Being less accessible has made life so private for me: it’s peaceful and balanced. I don’t overextend myself to do anything, if it’s not for me I express that it’s not for me. I plan what I have to do.
Do not Revisit/Rekindle: You have outgrown, walked away for a reason. It will not be the same when you go back. You’re disrespecting self. You’re allowing and accepting what made you leave to happen again. I won’t tolerate anyone not showing up for me - I am promoting healthy and that goes for both platonic and intimate. Come to think about it I am actually disgusted how I was accepting, settling for people to be around that I wanted to stay in my life. I never want to be her again. You’ll be irritated reopening a door God closed that needs to remain closed. You’ll be reminded why you walked away, STAY AWAY!
Overexplaining Self: I know you want to be heard and you want to tell your side of the story. If I feel I am overexplaining myself I will end things quick, fast and in a hurry. A part of letting go is letting go of the stories that weren’t told. Ewww that’s too much convincing - they know what they did, do. It’s giving undeserving. I know your feelings can get the best of you - it’s happened to me before. There are facts and there are feelings, both valid! Some are just not navigating from a feeling stand point.
Energy: I can no longer negotiate and compromise my energy. Don’t hold space for those who aren’t holding the same space for you. You feel so when you stay in a place where reciprocation isn’t happening. Ehhh just waiting around for the same energy ! Energy can no longer be exchanged with the wrong people. My energy is too pure to be contaminated. Trust I stayed places for too long but when I let go it felt so amazing.
Living in Your Truth: Become more accountable, vulnerable with self. How exactly do you do so? I can tell you what I do. I give myself the freedom to be me, I look at the role I have played, listen to my inner voice . I journal about the experience(s). I know that the investment of my time and energy will forever be an impact- for good or bad. I have always held my commitment and been loyal. I move forward with grace and in my truth. That’s my answer. You may find different. I am both personal and grief therapy. I’m still figuring it out day by day.
Rabbit’s Whole ….
Rabbit How To:
I am finally okay disconnecting from anybody and anything that causes noise in my head or chaos in my life. I am cultivating peace, love and stability more than anything. Anything outside of that is no longer for me and I am no longer available.
In my unlearning to learn experience I know that reciprocation isn’t everything but acknowledging when your energy is being drained for personal gain and not feeling the mutual appreciation from time to time can cause imbalance. Know when it is time to reposition your energy and remove yourself. There is no more negotiation or compromising.